I went round and round in my head until I was in a full panic and decided to tell a friend. "Ghosting, or suddenly disappearing from a relationship with no explanation, has become an all too common topic in my therapy practice," says relationship specialist Chamin Ajjan, M. This can cause someone to take the easy way out and just back away, rather than facing a situation head-on.
As Ajjan explains, "In an attempt to avoid an awkward situation, the ghost' not only causes the ghosted' normal pain associated with rejection but also causes additional pain related to grief, loss, and being disrespected.
It seemed as though their new potential partner would disappear into thin air for no apparent reason and without explanation, which created struggles with closure and natural frustration. Take care, Rachel Dack, MS, LCPC, NCC to Rachel Dack Counseling LLC’s blog, written by Rachel Dack, a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (L. Check back for more great resources, relationship advice and mental health tips!The top 7 reasons why men disappear in the middle of communicating with you online. She thought the reason he kept disappearing was because he thought so highly of himself. After a few minutes, they began to build rapport, and Bob relaxed. If she had followed her assumptions that he was arrogant and rude, she never would have dated him.1) He met someone else2) He's just not that into you3) He is a player4) He is online to window-shop but not to "buy"5) His membership ran out, and he can't contact you anymore6) He violated terms and was kicked off the site7) He's shy Charlene decided to give Bob another chance. As he felt more comfortable, he stuttered less and he and Charlene really clicked. Charlene learned that it's important to be open when you're dating. They would write back and forth a few times and make tentative plans to meet. So last Wednesday, when he popped up in her inbox once again, her first thought was, "Ignore his email", but her heart softened. He seems like such a nice guy...but, what if he disappears again? Over the past two years, Bob had started many email conversations with Charlene on