Our mission is to identify the worst mistakes men make when it comes to attracting and keeping a woman. I did– so I asked some guys about their online dating experiences. He was with his ex for fourteen years and has an eight-year-old son. Talk more about who you are rather than what you want from a man. What kind of activities do you enjoy that aren’t a cliché? When that happens, it’s hard to not feel like you’ve wasted their time.For most online dating sites, you’ll want to choose 3-7 photos.Any less than 3 and it’s hard to highlight the different aspects of your personality.Finding a guy who has the same working schedule and career goals can be really ideal when it comes to longevity. If you are dating someone, they deserve some sense of time and effort. It’s so much more authentic and endearing to hear your lover’s voice.
And if a woman thinks you don’t care about yourself, why should she care about you?
As a matchmaker, I witness a lot of stories that involve how a newly mature-minded man had to go through certain guys to realize what not to do for previous potentials moving forward.
It’s always the same: relationships three and six months in length and then “something suddenly happened.” I see a lot of guys who are seen as needy because their job allows for a more open schedule and their dater has a stricter schedule.
When you go through a dry spell in your dating life, it’s easy to think “ah well, I just need to wait till the right person comes along.” That could be true, but what if there’s something deeper going on?
What if you’re sabotaging yourself without even realizing it?