I think each situation is completely different, and without a lot more detail, we cannot tell you if it is a situation where you could get hurt.
I immediately started therapy to work through the loss, learn how to be in a healthy relationship and learn what I needed for me.
Two years ago, I met a gentleman I shall henceforth call James, because his name was, well, James. It lasted a full 10 hours (we’d met up for coffee at 3 p.m.
on a Saturday), and we discussed everything from the rudeness inherent to chronic lateness to how we both hate the book KNOW.
You’ll definitely need to accept this man’s ex-wife, but that’s as much as you need to do.
There’s no point in digging up dirt about her or stalking her on Facebook.