After the second relationship, I was single for a long time, and that’s when I started working on myself.When I started to see some changes in myself and in my life, I felt the desire to have a girlfriend again.“Happiness mainly comes from our own attitude, rather than from external factors.” ~Dalai Lama If you get married today, there is a 60% chance that your relationship won’t last.Is finding true love really that hard or is there something else going on? He gave in to something he knew was wrong and then he blamed his wife. Does blaming his wife help Adam avoid responsibility? He says to God, "The woman you sent me gave it to me and I ate it." I couldn't believe it.The two services used by these individuals were OKCupid and Match.com, two of the largest and most popular dating websites on the Internet.
If your body doesn’t flow then your brain won’t flow. If you want people to relate to you, then you have to be human. I’ve gone broke a few times during the decade, had a divorce, lost friendships, and have only survived (barely) by being persistent and knowing I had two kids to take care of, and loneliness to fight. I know I’m on the right track if after I post something someone tweets, “OMFG.” T) Be funny You can be all of the above and be funny at the same time. ” V) Use a lot of periods Forget commas and semicolons. Your sentences should be strong enough that you want people to pause and think about it. You want to love and flirt with your audience so they can love you back. FF) Let it sleep Whatever you are working on, sleep on it.
I mentioned this to my mentor, and he said, “It’s not the girlfriend you want; it’s what you think she can give you.” This was a real eye opener for me.
I realized that this desire was my ego telling me there was something missing in my life and that I needed to find someone else to fill this gap for me.
F) Read a lot You can’t write without first reading. When I was writing five bad novels in a row I would read all day long whenever I wasn’t writing (I had a job as a programmer, which I would do for about five minutes a day because my programs all worked and I just had to “maintain” them). G) Read before you write Before I write every day I spend 30-60 minutes reading high quality short stories poetry, or essays. But I think most people write at about 20% of what it could be.
So my writing is only about 90% of what it could be.